who are you in love with this year?

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYONE!!!

today is not a day to be sad if your single...its a day to remember that smelly loves you all because you are all crazy cool and you are you and smelly wouldn't change you even if she could!!

oh dearest valentines day...you come every years and ever year there are groups of people who protest you and hate you all because they are bitter and single...and then there are those who protest and hate all because they have someone and they are cheap and dont want to make the effort...

but really valentines day is not meant as a day to go all out and spend your life savings on someone just to show them how you feel...i mean hey if thats what you wanna do then do...but you dont have to...everyone knows that all the best gifts are home made anyways...the ones with the thought put into them...or even those really simple ones you send to someone whos not expecting it...

but i have to say...that even tho i am all 'alone' on valentines day i really couldn't care less...i am finally happy and its been a long time coming...i think the weather has a large part to do with that...

through a year of personal heart aches i have come out ok...i have made wicked cool friends and have met people i would have never otherwise met...i have realized that i am totally good on my own...and im not one of those love struck people who always have to have someone on their arm...

i have found out that i can have my own personal interests and hobbies aside from those that my significant other has...and that may seem obvious to you...but to me and a three year relastionship...everything that i thought was really mine...was really his...i just kinda 'stole' it cause i didnt have any of my own...

friends are what its all about in the end...cause with out them you got nothing...and i have made some really good friends this past year...thank god for blogging...who knows what i would have done with myself...

so YAY...be in love...with anyone or thing for that matter...your mom...your dog...your pillow...your foot...and just know that someone out there is thinking of you and loves you...it may just be me...ahaha

ok im offically the biggest dork ever!

anyways...i hope everyones day was good...and better then mine...i did homework all day and ate chocolate! but it was fun...and then i served chad with divorce papers...i get the car and house...but apparently he still gets certain ' services' ...i guess he just wouldn't be chad is he didnt fight in court for such things...ah well...

hugs and kisses